22 September 2009

Finally got my boy back


I finally got my Trevor back for the most part. For the past week I have been corrected beyond my patience whenever I call his name... "I'm not Trevor I'm a (baby) (baby Joel) (Puppy) (Pteradactyl) (Dolphin)"
To his credit he was very good at not breaking character. His impression of Joel is impeccable. As a puppy he can even wag his imaginary tail (which is pretty funny). I did have to tell him no more woof-ing at Wal-mart and put the kibosh on eating off the floor.

When he is himself, I get to enjoy conversations like this:
Trevor: I got a little bit of lazy.
Me: Doing what?
Trevor: The single bike track. Then I made it all the way. That made me a little bit lazy.
I think he means tired. Scott thinks he means crazy. All I know is that he sure does absorb a lot of adult chatter --especially if it concerns bikes. He also calls granola bars "handle bars" and believes crashing is an important part of biking. I wonder where he got that idea?

Trevor: (while backseat driving home one day) You skipped a page. We are supposed to go that way, Mommy.

And, after learning about The Last Supper he had some more interesting facts to share with me. It included some pretty big words and made no sense (to me) at all. I actually don't think it was clear to him either, but he liked using the word "sacrifice" in a sentence.

Joel is on the verge of crawling and getting around anywhere he likes just fine to sample garbage on the floor and chew on books and bang on something loud. He is sleeping a little longer at night. He doesn't complain when I dress him goofy or fix a bland meal. He can give high fives and isn't stingy with the smiles.

A haiku about my messy cupboard now finally organized by Scott

crazy mess o cups
now arranged by you with love
you fine tune my days


It is so very sweet to see in new ways how God has blessed me with a man who is so different than me. Scott walked in the kitchen one day and saw the cup cupboard clutter I have been just kind of putting up with and fixed it! And, I should say that he just offered to do it very cheerfully when I am SURE it has been bugging him much more than me. He sort of has a very strong proclivity for organization.
I am quite embarrassed to see that this definitely should have been something I should have fixed about 2 years ago when I had to add in sippy cups and straw cups and other toddler gear.
Regardless, AHhhhhh the relief.
Scott really does fine tune my life. I have often in the past been soo frustrated by his attention to detail when it clashed with my attention to big-picture. Now I am oh-so-glad to say it doesn't clash (as much) as it compliments.
Thank you, Mr. Swan.
Thank you, God!

What's better

than a nice walk on a beautiful morning with people you love?

09 September 2009

What you would hear, round here.

Scott: There's nothing like hearing your 2 year old on the trail-a-bike say "Faster, Daddy, faster!"

Keri:
Yeah. There's nothing like reaching for your phone on the way out the door to any event knowing it's only because you might have to call 911. And knowing this is just getting started.

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Scott: Apparently Greg Porterfield is right. We ARE getting old.